Getting laid off was the best financial motivator (and it can be for you too)

Getting laid off welches the best financial motivator (and it can be for you too)Getting laid off welches the best financial motivator (and it can be for you too)Inevitably, at some point in your professional career, you may end up getting laid off.Most times, its notlage based on your work ethic or performance at all.It just happens due to tough economic times, poor leadership, business is falling behind, etc.Being laid off can hit you like a shockwave and make you feel a mix of emotions too.You may feel angry, upset, stressed, or maybe in disbelief.And it is completely normal to have these feelings.Follow Ladders on FlipboardFollow Ladders magazines on Flipboard covering Happiness, Productivity, Job Satisfaction, Neuroscience, and moraBut instead of feeling down about yourself, this can also be a golden, kick-in-the-ass you need.By this, I mean it can be the ultimate career and personal finance motivator that you may have needed (or maybe didnt realize you needed).If you have been laid off or fear you might, I hope my story and some thoughts behind it will encourage you to look at something negative like job loss, as a potential revolutionary moment in your life for your future career and finances.Getting Laid OffNot everyone is or wants to be an entrepreneur, so the majority of people will enter the workforce in some capacity.Could be for a major business, maybe a local company, or even a startup.Unfortunately, this also increases the odds that you might be laid off one day.Ive been fortunate that Ive only experienced a lay off once in my professional career (so far), but it was a shock and certainly a bit of panic set in.I worked for a pretty well-known publishing brand that owned some big magazines and also was the publisher of many books.And this was also my first job after graduating college in 2010.The position was nothing fancy, but was my first real gig in the proverbial cube farm and corporate world.However, during the four years I was there, the com pany was known to do incremental layoffs.This, of course, created a culture of fear and worry (hats off to great leadership practices, **rolls eyes**).Money magazine reports 61% of people havelost a jobfor longer than a year by the time they reach age 70.And here begins my lay off storyIn August 2014, I was talking with a good friend about how dissatisfied I was with my career and how I felt like my professional career did not have a clear path.I also felt financially stuck and wanted to figure out how tomake more moneyand not be stressed about being broke, etc.That was me edging toward my own breaking point, but I didnt know where to start.So I began learning more about personal finance, investing, and took on a side gig doing some web work for an extra month.Then at the beginning of December, just about three weeks before Christmas 2014, I was laid off.There were already rumors of the belastung round of layoffs having passed, so I felt safe at this point. And then the ultimate lum p of coal, another round of layoffs, which I was included in.After the dreaded sit down with my manager and some HR rep, it was all a blur.But in an odd way at that moment, stress and panic did not set in.I was almost euphoric, giddy, and excited that this happened because I was just sick of the company and the work.But, later that day, everything hit me.A flood of various negative emotions, stress, and worry about what I was going to do.I didnt have much saved, I was living on my own with bills andstudent loans to pay. Fortunately, I did get severance pay that would last me until February, but after that, I needed a way to make money.I would not find a new full-time gig for almost 9 monthsI stayed a float with that side gig I mentioned earlier and got another part-time gig with a startup.However, I like to call my layoff a divine intervention in both career and my personal finances, heres why.The divine career interventionThe reason I call my layoff a divine career intervention, wa s because I had no defined career or path.I started in email marketing for the company I was laid off from, then did some graphic stuff, then went to photo management and some mobile app building.My resume was just a bunch of randomness and I only worked in one place.But this forced me to learn what I liked, focusing on fixing my career path (I pivoted to digital marketing), and improve my career worth.But getting laid off was also a financial motivator too.The divine financial interventionI never want to experience the panic or stress of not knowing how Im going to pay bills or be solely dependent on a job.Until getting laid off, I never actually put much thought into that.I wasnt concerned or really had a plan in place if something would happen.I was starting to think about this a few months before I was let go from my job, which I think was crucial in being a bit more prepared to get learning.But getting laid shifted my entire financial mindset too.Fear was certainly a motivating factor, but bettering my future was also a driving force.The way I thought about money, like saving, spending, and investing was more on my mind than ever before.Why Getting Laid Off Can Be the Motivation You NeedAt the time it wont feel like it or might be hard to envision how, but I truly believe it can (and does) if you approach it with a clear mentality.Of course, the stress of money and paying your bills is abigreason to be worried.But Im a firm believer that the hard times in life are the best lessons and times to take action.A moment of grief and emotions is certainly healthy, take a few days for yourself to process and come to terms. But pick yourself up and get to workHere are a few ways getting laid off was the motivator I needed and these may also apply to you if you face a layoff.Forces you out of your comfort zoneBeing laid off is an uncomfortable situation, but it forced me to take action and avoid future complacency.Although a bit scary because of the unknown, I thin k it helped me be better prepared for situations that might not always be sunshine and rainbows.Talking about careers, finding a job, learning how to manage my finances during this time, wasnt exactly comfortable topics.But, getting laid off did not leave me much choice but to jump right in.Can teach you how to be more prepared financiallyNot having much cash saved, with debt and bills to pay during a layoff was quite stressful.But it put me in a survival mode, which helped me approach finances differently.I started to understand the value of emergency funds, helped me become a better budgeter, and a better saver too.It teaches you how to trulymanage your moneymore effectively, which can stick with you well beyond your layoff period.Increases the value of multiple income streams and side hustlesYouve probably heard about the value ofmultiple streams of income, but not everyone has one outside of their day job.Being laid off can really prove the value of having another source of inco me through a side hustle.When you have another source or two outside of your 9-5, you have a financial buffer and you will probably feel a bit less stressed if a layoff happens.Getting laid off will potentially make you care more about multiple streams of income, work harder on side hustles, or fuel you to work more on your own projects.Since this happened to me, I always ensure I had 1-2 extra streams of income.Helps you appreciate more of what you do haveBeing laid off is a sucky situation and can feel like your world is falling apart.But, I also found it to be a great reflection period to appreciate what you do have in life.Look for the positives, even when you feel the negative energy around you.For me, I still had a place to live, had a supportive family, great relationship had started, and I had a side hustle that could help me make some money to stay afloat.So while I was nervous about losing my job and having no clear career direction, I found my mentality to become positive about the situation after some reflection.Final ThoughtsEveryone handles being laid off differently and your financial situation when this happens is also unique.But take this time to remove the negative energy and work on how this can actually better your life.My best tips for helping you analyze your lay off situation is to do the followingTake some time for yourself to gather thoughts and emotions.Take a day or two, or if you need a bit longer.Mental and emotional health will be crucial to creating a plan of action and help drive your attitude.Find things that are calming and fuel your mind with good energy.If you are low on funds and need to make money, look for part-time or a job that might not be in your career to get a steady paycheck.Apply for unemployment immediately, take odd side jobs for now, however you can legally make money.If you do have a bit of a financial buffer, put it to good use and work on your personal finances to ensure you arent overspending while looking for your next gig.Evaluate your career, what you like, dislike, and do some research to make changes if you think you need a new path.Its not always easy to switch careers or find something you are passionate about immediately, but spend time in this area.The internet can teach you plenty and has a lot of great resources for you to research.Put a plan together, whether thats giving your resume a boost, improving your knowledge (books, certifications, training, etc.)networking, finding a new career path, organizing your finances, or all the above.Write down your career and financial goals, figure out how you are going to get there.Talk to friends, colleagues, or family if you need some advice or help.Has getting laid off motivated you or have you thought about what youd do in this situation? Let me know in the comments below.This article first appeared on Invested Wallet.